February 6, 2012

Traditions

Christmas Eve or Christmas Day: When Do You Open Presents?

Little girl opening Christmas presents.Christmas Eve or Christmas Day?  That is the question.  When, exactly, are you supposed to open your Christmas presents?

In many European countries, the tradition is to open gifts after dinner on Christmas Eve.   Some, however, still prefer to open their gifts on Christmas Day itself.  Notice that I did not say on December 25.  Certain Eastern European countries celebrate Christmas 13 days later than that.

In America, the tradition of when to open gifts seems to vary from family to family.  Many families opt to open their presents at midnight on Christmas morning.  Of course, the gifts that Santa brings will have to wait until morning.

The tradition in our family has been to open one present on Christmas Eve, sort of to whet the appetite.  All other presents sit under the tree until morning.

What’s the tradition in your family?  Leave us a comment and let us know.

The Christmas Chain

A lot of families use an “advent calendar” to help their young children count down the days until Christmas.  Around our house, we used “the Christmas chain.”

Put simply, it was a red and green construction paper chain with one link for every day from Thanksgiving until Christmas.  This was something we used to make as a decoration when I was in elementary school so, when our son was born, we worked it into the family traditions.

After dinner on Thanksgiving day, we would sit down with our son, Kevin, and we would make the chain.  We took sheets of red and green construction paper and cut them into 2″ by 8″ strips.  We took the first strip and folded it into a loop and glued (or stapled) the two ends together.  Then, we took a strip of the other color, laced it through the first strip and glued the ends.  We continued adding links, or alternating color, until we had one link for every evening.

Once the chain was done, we would hang it, in a vertical line, in the hallway leading to Kevin’s room.  Each night, he could remove one link right before bedtime.  The first few links were no big deal, but his excitement grew as the chain got shorter.  By the time the chain was so short that Daddy had to pick Kevin up to remove a link, he was almost at a fever pitch.  Before you knew it, there was only one little link left and that was to be taken down Christmas Eve.  Let me tell you, he was downright jazzed when we got down to just one.

Of course, he did try to hurry things along by removing four or five links at once.  We had to explain that it doesn’t work that way.

Kevin is now a grown man and we don’t do the chain anymore.  To be honest, he wouldn’t need me to pick him up to get the last links anyway and I don’t believe that I could even if he did need it.  Still, he counts the Christmas chain as one of his favorite Christmas memories and, you know what, his mom and I do too.

Do You Go “Christmas Lighting?”

This is a tradition that started when I was a teenager, I believe. We may have done it once in a while before then, but I remember it becoming a regular thing during my teen years.

The tradition of which I write is “Christmas lighting.” Every Christmas Eve, we would jump in the car, just after dusk, and drive around town checking out all of the wonderful Christmas light displays.

When I got older and Cindy and I were married, we carried this tradition into our new family as well. We did add a trip to McDonalds or Wendy’s to the tradition. Every year, we would go through the drive through and get some finger food (usually chicken nuggets) and eat in the car as we drove around town, “oohing” and “aahing” at all of the wonderful holiday displays.

When we got home, we would read the Christmas story from the Gospel of St. Luke and then it was time for bed.

This may not seem like a big deal to some, who are used to big fancy affairs on Christmas Eve, but I have many fond memories which revolve around our “Christmas Lighting” trips.

Not Your Usual Christmas Stocking

One of my fondest childhood Christmas memories may sound a bit strange to some.  It involves paper lunch sacks.  You see, when I was a little boy, we didn’t use Christmas stockings.  When we hung the stockings, it was just for decoration.  For us, the real deal was the paper lunch sack.

Every Christmas Eve, each child would grab a brown paper sack and write his or her name on it.  Then, we would place the sack on the piece of furniture where we wanted Santa to leave our presents.

On Christmas Morning, these formerly flat sacks were stuffed full with candy, nuts and oranges (or tangelos).  These were treats that didn’t appear regularly at our house.  That’s why we looked forward to these little bags each year.

When the presents were unwrapped and the shredded paper hauled away, we still had those wonderful little bags waiting for us.